A Careless Tongue can be More Dangerous than a Sword.
Nowadays, bullying is increasingly common among teenagers. Bullying is an act of someone to others who can cause or make other people become weak and feel insecure, and most often done unconsciously is verbal bullying. Verbal bullying is intimidation through their words to a bully victim. speak at will to make the victim bully feel frustrated, some even want to end his life. And the most concerning, verbal bullying occur in the school environment. Therefore, to prevent bullying from happening in the school environment, especially verbal bullying, teachers and parents can do the following things: foster a child's confidence, support children's talents, communicate well with children. In this way hopefully no child will become a victim of bullying.
The first, fostering self-confidence of children. Teachers and parents must emphasize to children, that all humans in the world are created by the Almighty different. With different uniqueness and talents, so a child must not be inferior or jealous of the strengths of others, because every child has their own strengths that must be developed.Therefore children must not ridicule others, and do not want to be ridiculed, children must dare to defend themselves. Children must be taught to explore their own potential. And make every talk that sneers at him as a motivation to do better.
The second, supporting children's talent. Teachers and parents must be able to make children find talents that exist in themselves, and always support and help develop their talents. Convince children that the talent they have is very good and if developed will be useful for their future. Teachers and parents must also give rewards for everything a child does. Not only when he succeeded but also when he failed, teachers and parents must give him an award to inspire him. The tongue is not reinforced, the words are spoken very easily, so do not let the words that come out of our mouths fade the spirit of the child. The teacher and parent must emphasize to the child that all people sometimes have to fail before they can do their best, and he is not alone there are many people who fail but ultimately succeed.
Finally, communicating well with children. Teachers and parents must be fun places to tell stories for children. The teacher not only teaches science to children, but must also be someone who can be relied on when children want to talk about their desires. Teacher and parent communication towards children must be able to make children have love for their peers, not make them feel superior or inferior to their peers. Teachers and parents must be able to emphasize to children, that whatever the problem can be told to the teacher or parent. So that any problems encountered at school can be quickly resolved.
In conclusion, verbal bullying can be prevented if teachers and parents have a close relationship with children. although not visible, verbal bullying is very dangerous to the child's development. therefore teachers and parents must work together. Because A Careless Tongue can be More Dangerous than a Sword. Don't let the words of those around you ruin your child's future.Teachers and parents must be able to foster love within each child. That way, hopefully there are no victims or perpetrators, bully.
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The second, supporting children's talent. Teachers and parents must be able to make children find talents that exist in themselves, and always support and help develop their talents. Convince children that the talent they have is very good and if developed will be useful for their future. Teachers and parents must also give rewards for everything a child does. Not only when he succeeded but also when he failed, teachers and parents must give him an award to inspire him. The tongue is not reinforced, the words are spoken very easily, so do not let the words that come out of our mouths fade the spirit of the child. The teacher and parent must emphasize to the child that all people sometimes have to fail before they can do their best, and he is not alone there are many people who fail but ultimately succeed.
Finally, communicating well with children. Teachers and parents must be fun places to tell stories for children. The teacher not only teaches science to children, but must also be someone who can be relied on when children want to talk about their desires. Teacher and parent communication towards children must be able to make children have love for their peers, not make them feel superior or inferior to their peers. Teachers and parents must be able to emphasize to children, that whatever the problem can be told to the teacher or parent. So that any problems encountered at school can be quickly resolved.
In conclusion, verbal bullying can be prevented if teachers and parents have a close relationship with children. although not visible, verbal bullying is very dangerous to the child's development. therefore teachers and parents must work together. Because A Careless Tongue can be More Dangerous than a Sword. Don't let the words of those around you ruin your child's future.Teachers and parents must be able to foster love within each child. That way, hopefully there are no victims or perpetrators, bully.
Ya, Teacher and parent communication towards children must be able to make children have love for their peers, because everyone is special, thank you for your write...
BalasHapusThats right!!! 👍how are you Miss???, 🤔🤔🤔try sending pictures of the most beautiful places on rote island, please!!! 🙏
Hapusyes, bullies are not good for the future of a child, they must be guided to find their true identity
BalasHapusBuktikan kalau kita itu lebih hebat dari mereka. Setiap manusia pasti lemah. Tetapi, di mata pembully kita memang lemah. Sesungguhnya, jika kita memiliki kelebihan, kita bisa membuktikan kalau kita lebih hebat daripada mereka. Misalnya, pintar metematika, jago bulutangkis, dan lain-lain. Dengan begitu, mereka akan sadar kalau mereka sesungguhnya mempunyai kelemahan.
BalasHapusUsaha bangkit dari diri sendiri. Jika kita ingin bebas dari bullying, semuanya dimulai dari diri sendiri. Mengapa? Sebab jika kita tidak mencari cara untuk bangkit dari bullying tersebut, kita akan terus dikekang oleh orang yang menyakiti diri kita. Jika kita tidak bisa meakukannya, siapa lagi yang ingin menolong kita? Ada benarnya juga, jika kita ingin bebas dari bullying, kita perlu seorang teman. Tetapi, lebih baik kita bangkit dari bullying dari inisiatif diri sendiri.
Berani melaporkannya ke orang tua atau guru. Jika kita dibully, lebih baik minta bantuan kepada orang tua atau guru. Agar, kita bisa terbuka apa yang terjadi dengan diri kita. Jangan menutupi apa yang terjadi dengan diri kita. Karena itu hanya akan memperburuk masalah dan membuat kita menjadi takut bergaul dengan orang lain. Lebih baik terbuka dengan orang yang kita percaya seperti guru, orang tua, atau sahabat curhat kita.
Jangan mencoba mengakhiri hidup. Ini sangat penting! Jangan mencoba mengakhiri hidup.
Mengapa? Sudah mendapatkan dosa, mengecewakan orang tua, dan pembully itu puas dengan apa yang dilakukan oleh diri kita sendiri. Jadi, jangan mencoba mengakhiri hidup. Selesaikan dengan cara yang baik dan berkonsultasi dengan orang yang kita percaya agar kita mendapatkan jalan keluar untuk mengatasi masalah yang kita alami.
Berdoa kepada Tuhan Yang Maha Esa. Berdoalah kepada Tuhan Yang Maha Esa agar diberi kesabaran dalam menghadapi masalah. Tuhan menopang kita. Tuhan melihat apa yang mereka perbuat. Tuhan juga akan memberi mereka hukuman yang setimpal dengan kita. Tuhan mengasihi kita agar kita bisa melewati masalah dan membuat kita tersenyum
Amen. Thank you ma'am.
HapusThanks for this article.
BalasHapusYou're welcome, Mss. Hopefully we can become teachers who are always sensitive to students, willing to listen to their problems and help solve their problems. Thank you,,,, Mss.
BalasHapusYes.. i really agree with this article. As a theacher and as a parents especially must be care, give more time to talk and share with our children.
BalasHapusThank you for the article sis🙏
BalasHapusThank you for this good article
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